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Snack Break with Mary

Jan 25, 2022

Snack Break with Mary

Registered Dietitian-Nutritionist & Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor at Advantage Strength

Wherever you’re reading from- pause, check in with your hunger level, grab a snack if you need one, and sit down for a short read! 


Through this newsletter series, I’ll introduce some concepts from the non-diet approach to health & nutrition. If you ever have questions, please reach out! I’m here for you. 


To lay the groundwork, let’s start with what I mean by “non-diet” or “anti-diet”. This refers to an approach to health and nutrition management that does not require restriction or deprivation in terms of calories, specific foods, or food groups. Of course there are some circumstances where a special restriction is required; such as a food allergy- but for many folks, food or calorie restriction is not necessary to optimize health and wellness– and there are many studies that show restrictive dieting may actually negatively impact our health and wellbeing in a number of ways. (More on that later.)


Though, even without knowing the research, many of us have shared negative or frustrating experiences related to dieting or attempted weight loss. If you can relate, I want to just start by saying that any “failed”' attempt does not make you a failure. You are not a failure. Diets are failing to meet our needs! They often lead to the feeling that we have to work against our body to succeed. They force us to rely on “external frameworks” to determine what to eat, when to eat, and how much to eat: such as calorie counts, point systems, special meal kits and supplements, eating “windows” or time frames, “good” and “bad” food lists, and so on. We are taught to make food decisions based on factors that are not related to how we actually feel. A diet plan may conflict with our biological needs, and when we do feel hungry, we are convinced that our body is wrong. We may ask ourselves: “Why am I still hungry? I just ate!” or think to ourselves: “Maybe I just need water instead.... Or should chew gum…. Or have a cup of coffee.. “ and so on. We may eventually lose trust in our body: “If I eat when I’m hungry, I will lose control.” Or we may associate favorite foods with guilt: “Why did I eat that piece of cake? I didn’t need that.” 


If this sounds familiar, it’s totally normal. Many of us have been there. We have the intention to take care of our body, to improve our health, to be our best selves. But unfortunately, we end up fighting with our body. We have been told over and over from Diet Culture that we don’t know what’s best for ourselves. We have to follow a diet plan to take care of ourselves. We should ignore our body’s cues in our best interest.


But our body doesn’t know our intentions. Our body just wants to survive. When we under-eat to meet a calorie goal, our body doesn’t know we’re “trying to be healthy”. It sees it as starvation. And after a diet ends and our body weight is restored, we criticize ourselves as being a failure, rather than recognizing that our body is succeeding in protecting us. It’s an ongoing battle that can end once you start working with your body, and not against it: Just like we breathe to supply our body with oxygen, and just like we use the restroom when nature calls :), responding to our hunger cues is natural and supports our wellbeing.


This is the essence of the non-diet approach, and more specifically, Intuitive Eating- which is a non-diet framework that consists of ten principles that help you navigate eating behaviors, body image, physical activity, and gentle nutrition in a supportive, flexible, and compassionate manner. I’ll introduce more concepts in the coming weeks, but for now, I just want to highlight the shift from making food decisions based on “external frameworks” instead to “internal frameworks” that happens when practicing Intuitive Eating. You’ll find some examples in the image below.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to connect! E-mail me with “Advantage Strength Discovery Call” in the subject line, and we’ll set up a free 30-minute Discovery Call so you can ask questions and learn more about my approach & services: [email protected]


All for now! See you during the next Snack Break in a couple weeks. Thanks for reading!



What I’m Reading
: What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About Fat, by Aubrey Gordon


What I’m Streaming
: “The Tropical Starch Behind Fufu and Boba” Climate Cuisine Podcast by Whetstone Radio Collective


What I’m Cooking
: Turkey tacos with mango chimichurri slaw from Green Chef




Mary is a Registered Dietitian-Nutritionist and Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor currently working in partnership with Advantage Strength to offer Nutrition services. Her background is in clinical nutrition, local food systems, and culinary arts. Her goal is to help enhance your relationship to your food, your body, and your community. To learn more, visit
www.marybalogrdn.com (or stay tuned for more newsletter content!).

29 Mar, 2022
So far I’ve introduced a little about the “non-diet” approach , as well as the Diet Cycle , which many people find themselves stuck in when using a restrictive “diet” approach to food and health. For some of those people, the idea of eating what they love and “giving up” on diet or weight loss doesn’t seem like an option, understandably. We face a LOT of pressure, day after day, to eat “clean” and lose weight. That pressure may come from well-intentioned family, friends, and healthcare professionals who are concerned about our health (more on that later); or from fear-inducing headlines that compare sugar to poison; or from photo-shopped & face-tuned ads on Instagram of celebrities selling their flat tummy tea or shapewear. We are surrounded by Diet Culture, and are forced to engage with it- no matter if it’s coming from our loved ones, acquaintances, coworkers, or even strangers. What exactly is Diet Culture? You might have an idea just from the sound of it... Messaging that promotes diet & weight loss. Right? It’s actually more than that. Here’s a definition from Aubrey Gordon, author of “What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About Fat”: Diet Culture: “A system of cultural beliefs and practices that equates thinness not just with health, but with moral virtue, and which advocates for weight loss at any cost. Diet culture isn’t just a matter of being on a diet, but of the social forces that make dieting (or lifestyle changes or wellness) culturally mandatory for so many of us.” The key phrases are “moral virtue” and “weight loss at any cost”. Diet culture doesn’t only convince us that weight loss is necessary (to be beautiful, to demonstrate our worth, or to be healthy); but it creates this pressure that we are MORALLY obligated to do so. In order to be perceived as good, responsible people, Diet Culture urges us to pursue weight loss at any cost- which could mean sacrificing our social life, a significant amount of money on supplements or meal replacements or programs, our emotional wellbeing, and even our physical wellbeing. Maybe diet and weight loss aren’t so healthy after all… And while this may not be everyone’s experience, we have research that demonstrates the following emotional impacts of restrictive dieting: Dieting is associated with higher anxiety levels (Kwasnicka, 2020) Dieting is associated with poorer emotional and mental quality of life (Burns etal, 2001) Dieting is linked with reduced life satisfaction (Esch and Zullig, 2013) Further, restrictive dieting has actually been found to cause weight GAIN. To be clear, weight gain is nothing to be ashamed about (bodies change!); but if the multibillion dollar diet industry is selling a diet plan for weight loss, they’re not exactly being honest about the likely outcomes. 1⁄3 to 2⁄3 regained weight within 1 year, with almost all weight regained within 5 years (1992 NIH Consensus) Most weight is gained back within 2 years and most gained back all the weight by 5 years (2013 Australian Research Council) A team of UCLA researchers reviewed 31 long term studies on the effectiveness of dieting and concluded that dieting is a consistent predictor of weight gain —up to two-thirds of the people regained more weight than they lost (Mann 2007) This quote from Weight Watchers former Finance Director sums it up pretty well:
07 Mar, 2022
Good morning! Thank you to everyone who came out to Break the Diet Cycle presentation. I hope you’re starting today feeling curious about Intuitive Eating and eager to rediscover your favorite foods in a fresh, positive way. I attached the PDFs of the presentation for you to reference, as well as the “HAES (Health at Every Size) Manifesto”, by Dr. Lindo Bacon, author of Health at Every Size. This provides a snapshot of the science behind the weight neutral approach, Health at Every Size, which Intuitive Eating is aligned with. For those of you who couldn’t attend, you may be wondering- what exactly is Intuitive Eating? As I mentioned in an earlier newsletter, Intuitive Eating is a non-diet approach to food and health. The framework consists of 10 principles to help you examine and reevaluate your beliefs & attitudes about your body, your food, physical activity, health, and more. While practicing Intuitive Eating, individuals relearn how to eat in accordance to their natural hunger and fullness cues; food cravings; energy needs, and so on. They begin to trust their body to tell them when to eat, what to eat, and how much to eat. The Ten Principles of Intuitive Eating are: 1. Reject the Diet Mentality 2. Honor Your Hunger 3. Make Peace with Food 4. Challenge the Food Police 5. Feel Your Fullness 6. Discover the Satisfaction actor 7. Cope with Your Feelings without Using Food 8. Respect Your Body 9. Exercise to Feel the Difference 10. Honor Your Health with Gentle Nutrition Intuitive Eating may seem like a straightforward concept, but in a culture that heavily promotes dieting and weight loss as a path to health, happiness, and even moral virtue, it can be hard to break out of the Diet Cycle (seen below). Also known as the “Restrict-Binge Cycle”, this eating pattern is typically kicked off by some diet thought, like “I need to lose weight” or “I need to start eating better”.
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